In Memoriam Kappy Flanders

Dear Council members, PROJECTION Week Committee and Friends of the Council:

It's a very sad day. We are sorry to have to tell you, as most of you now know, that the Founder and Co-Chair of the Council, Kappy Flanders, died on 27 June.

She was a Champion of Palliative Care, colleague, mentor and friend to so many. The loss is great and she will be missed by all who knew her.

Below are two wonderful tributes from Dr. Bernard Lapointe, Eric M. Flanders Chair in Palliative Medicine at McGill, 
and Dr. David Eidelman, Dean of the Faculty of Medicine at McGill.

Suzanne and John
Suzanne O'Brien and John Sanford
The McGill Council on Palliative Care


Tribute from  Dr. Bernard Lapointe

Dear Palliative Care community,

The Palliative Care Community at McGill, across the country and around the world, mourns the loss of a remarkable leader and activist, a formidable volunteer for the cause of quality end of life care and a compassionate and genuine mentor for many of us, as well as a generous philanthropist. It is with profound sadness that I share with you that Kappy Flanders died peacefully at home yesterday surrounded by her three daughters, Susan, Judith and Elle. She was 81 years old.

Kappy Flanders was introduced to Palliative Care a few years after the death of her husband Eric, when her mother was dying in Israel. There she witnessed the strengths of palliative care and had first-hand experience of its whole person care approach. She returned to Montreal determined that every family should know about, and have access to, palliative care. She went to McGill University and suggested that there should be an endowed Chair in palliative medicine. The Eric M. Flanders Chair in Palliative Medicine was thus created - the first Chair in palliative medicine in North America, which was attributed to Dr. Balfour Mount. She also was instrumental in partnering with Dean Richard Cruess to create the McGill Council on Palliative Care, a not-for-profit community-based organization focused on increasing public awareness of and support for palliative care, as well as its availability within and beyond the McGill community.

At the same time, Kappy became instrumental in the development of the Canadian Palliative Care Initiative, a blueprint for enhancing research, scholarship, and the promotion of a standardized system for palliative care across the country.

Kappy was a connector, bringing together volunteers, professionals, intellectuals, artists and leaders, all around the cause of quality end-of-life care. This quality was particularly evident in the realization, in partnership with Suzanne O’Brien, of Projection Week, a unique initiative that took place across Montreal last October.

Projection Week was a unique opportunity for Montrealers to harness the power of creativity to explore major questions about life and death, from different points of view and disciplines - philosophical, medical, social, artistic and educational. This event was exceptionally successful, and Kappy was already planning a second edition for the Fall of 2021 in partnership with the Council on Palliative Care and McGill University.

Kappy has also contributed significantly, as member of its organizing committee, to the continuous success of the International Congress on palliative care organized every two years by McGill since 1976.

Earlier this Spring, I remember conversations with her around the challenges brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic, the inhumane way too many were dying without having had the opportunity to choose how they would die, whether or not they would accept ventilation, intensive care or would prefer comfort measures. The violence of the pandemic and the degree of suffering it brought about fueled her wish to better communicate about advance care planning at end-of-life and also to further contribute to enable patients and their loved ones to ensure their choices are respected and the care they need is available.
Kappy had many achievements. In recognition of her contributions to the community, particularly through the creation of the McGill Council on Palliative Care, she was awarded the Governor-General's Meritorious Service Medal in 2003.

Kappy also sat on McGill’s Board of Governors from 1998 to 2007. In 2009, the University recognized her tremendous contributions by awarding her with an honorary Doctorate of Laws, the institution’s highest honour.

In 2015, she was named a member of the Order of Canada.

Kappy’s death represents a profound loss for many of us who benefited from her guidance, her support and her friendship. She will be sorely missed.

On behalf of the Palliative Care McGill Community I would like to express our most sincere sympathy to her children Susan, Judith, Steven and Elle, her friends and her family.

Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, there will be no shiva. A memorial service in Montreal will be announced at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Council on Palliative Care will be appreciated.

Donations to the McGill Council on Palliative Care can be done with Mr. Arnav Manchanda, McGill University, 514-398-2529, Email: arnav.manchanda [at]

For further information about the extraordinary life of Kappy, please visit the Palliative Care McGill website:

Bernard J. Lapointe, M.D.
Eric M. Flanders Chair in Palliative Medicine
McGill University

Tribute from Dean Eidelman

Dear Colleagues,

 It is with sadness that I share the news of the passing of Kappy Flanders, who died this past Saturday, June 27, at home surrounded by her family. Kappy was a remarkable presence in our community for decades and made exceptional contributions to the Faculty of Medicine as a cherished advocate, social activist and educator. With her thoughtful and dedicated approach, she urged us to think differently about end of life and quality of care issues. As Kappy has now reached the end of her own life, we should pay tribute to her as a community.

After the death of her husband in 1991, Kappy became an ardent advocate of palliative care and medical education. Among her many accomplishments, she formed the Council on Palliative Care and inaugurated the Eric M. Flanders Chair in Palliative Medicine. Kappy was the co-founder of the International Congress on Palliative Care, one of the largest events of its kind in the world. She was an instrumental supporter in the establishment of what became the Steinberg Centre for Simulation and Interactive Learning and was a regular attendee at the Donning of the Healer’s Habit, a White Coat ceremony for medical students embarking on their clinical training. She was also responsible for creating McGill’s Mini-Med public lecture series and similar programs in other faculties. As recently as eight months ago, she was the central figure in establishing Montreal’s first and very successful Projection Week, an event created to promote community conversations around death and dying.

Kappy was a passionate advocate and visionary for the causes she believed in. How fortunate we are that she believed in McGill and in the Faculty of Medicine, giving so much of her time and energy in support of our mission. We were further touched to learn that Kappy donated her body to the Faculty’s Division of Anatomical Sciences for teaching purposes.

Our community is diminished by her passing and those of us who worked closely with her are deeply saddened by her death. I will miss her leadership, her genuine kindness and how she infused everything with her own wonderful style and wit. We extend our sincere condolences to Kappy’s children and her entire family on this profound loss.

David Eidelman, MDCM
Vice-Principal (Health Affairs)
Dean of the Faculty of Medicine



Also see:

Tribute in the Globe and Mail

 Kappy Flanders Obituary - Paperman and Sons

Donations in memory of Kappy Flanders. 
In Lieu of flowers, donations to the McGill Council on Palliative Care will be appreciated and can be done with Mr. Arnav Manchanda, McGill University, 514-398-2529, Email: arnav.manchanda [at]



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